Sunday, January 15, 2012

Emotional Intelligence...Revisited!!!


I usually wonder , how often I get stuck to a single word or a single thought....n then there’s just scratching... scratching ...  and scratching....d thought scratching me or I scratching the thought!!!

Why do we always want an answer before long?...Why does delay frustrate us??? How wise is it to engage our logical and analytical mind without allowing any space for our intuition to dwell? In this process, aren’t we restraining our prospective to visualize by killing the thrill that comes from wonder, doubt and curiosity???

Thesaurus says, Void means - emptiness, undefined space or nothingness... Sounds interesting!  Seems it’s an exceptionally exigent place to live...counter to our continued existence!!! This potentially rich, vacant room, “the void,” can only be if we let it to be! But why would we need it??? After all, it’s a HARD gap...

It’s always safe to have the answers nevertheless; giving room for the unfamiliar is like giving breakthroughs in our consciousness. This vague space, where we feel most weak, is where we find our true power!
We dislike being in a state of uncertainty and are bound to solve all dilemmas, and...move on! We often get harassed for explanations, justification and evidence by our logical instinct much before we even think to act on our intuition...Yet our instinctive psyche invites us to trust our innovative zone that has no predefined answers. It leads us... one awareness at a time...in a direction we might never have imagined...and to places we never knew existed.
We are conditioned to let the logical intelligence rule our lives.  Hence, we miss the opportunity of getting out of a groove to take up a new path.  We follow the same old disturbing patterns. Instead, we can pause in the void to allow room for a new creation.  Though, it is uncomfortable to hold this undefined space yet, it is critical to choose to NOT KNOW much enough to profoundly pin our ears back to our intuitive signals.  While doing so, we will get the spiritual directions that guide us on a path less predictable... more magical!

6 comments:

  1. what all are you reading now a days.. its amazing writing... keep it up and try weaving a story.. u have the potential to do it...

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  2. challenging one's comfort zone should be the aim of one's life...it keeps you on your toes and also happy, life becomes a race then,,, a famous dialogue by Viru sahatra buddhiiiii.. i too believe that it is easier to be judgmental and react impulsively rather than thinkin and dwelling to find the right answers to our problems. i agree with you rupali that most of our problems can be solved in our mind itself.. rest the earth will still take 24 hours to spin. Come and let us face the life ..it is beautiful..people come and go and give you experience..there is always some one else or some thing else to fill the void. indulge yourself in the activity which can keep you happy. play with your emotions ..dwell in them ..cry..and cry to the deep but the most important thing.. learn from that experience and never cry for that reason again..this will create more reasons for you to remain happy.

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  3. Thanx Neeraj....U r always an inspiration:)Whnz ua book getting published?

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  4. You should consider writing something seriously... It's so fresh... Gud job :)

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  5. Shukla...Its Food for thought for me...your words have fostered my so called "talent" every now and then...than buddy:)

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